Behroze Sabzwari Says Women Are Responsible for Most Divorces

Behroze Sabzwari, a renowned Pakistani actor, has captivated audiences with his powerful performances in iconic dramas such as Khuda Ki Basti, Tanhayan, Zindagi Gulzar Hai, and Humsafar.

His unforgettable characters, like Nosha and Qabacha, have cemented his status as one of the most respected figures in the entertainment industry. Over the decades, his impeccable acting skills have earned him widespread acclaim. Beyond his career, Sabzwari remains vocal about societal issues, never hesitating to express his views.

Recently, he appeared on Madeha Naqvi’s morning show, Subh Ka Samaa, alongside his wife, Safeena Sheikh. During the conversation, the host brought up the increasing divorce rates, highlighting how these separations have become painful for parents. Seeking their perspective, she directed the question to the couple.

While Safeena Sheikh responded diplomatically, emphasizing miscommunication and differences in expectations as the primary causes of marital breakdowns, Behroze Sabzwari took a more direct stance. He boldly claimed that excessive pampering by parents has led to a rise in divorce cases among young couples.

“I attend extravagant wedding events with budgets of 20 crores, yet these marriages don’t even last a few months or days. The situation has completely changed. Parents pamper their daughters too much, telling them, ‘Don’t worry, live like a queen; we’ve spent ten crores on your wedding,’” he remarked sarcastically.

According to Sabzwari, this overindulgence creates an inflated sense of entitlement. He argued that young women, treated like royalty by their parents, often carry the belief that they can make all the decisions once they marry.

“As a result, she starts seeing herself as a queen who dictates everything. However, no matter how modern her husband is, he is still the son of his parents. The parents of girls and the girls themselves are responsible for divorces,” he stated.

Hmm… yikes! Is this truly the only reason? His sharp observation left many wondering whether familial expectations play a crucial role in failed marriages. In contrast, Safeena Sheikh advocated for simplicity, stressing the importance of modest Nikah ceremonies over lavish weddings to avoid unnecessary pressures.

Adding to his perspective, Sabzwari remarked that many young people today opt for love marriages—or what he calls “infatuation”—only to realize later that married life is vastly different once the honeymoon phase ends.

Notably, Behroze Sabzwari’s son, Shehroze Sabzwari, also a well-known actor, was previously married to actress Syra Yousuf. Their marriage lasted eight years, and they share a daughter. Shehroze later married model Sadaf Kanwal, a development that naturally adds another layer of intrigue to this conversation.

Some might question whether Behroze’s strong opinions on divorce stem from personal experiences within his own family. Could there be some underlying shade here?